Do you have "cool" qualifications?

Just to teach in the United States, I often when in office building corridor run, has also been a colleague to blame.

At that time, I ask him: "I'm not hit you, how can affect you? Run, is my freedom."

But the colleague a straight face said: "you run, let I thought was on fire, uneasy heart, so your freedom affect my freedom."neuers blogspot blog

In the Chinese people's funeral, can HuTianQiangDe, even not cry to be think unfilial and heartless. But in western funeral, relatives can not to shed tears, but will be praised, think that is the performance of the self-governing. Because bereavement is your business, if you cried out to other people, at a loss, and is being impolite.

"Smile" too. When will you see people in senior western restaurant tear off your voice laugh? Even if there is just too funny things have to whispered, because if laugh, will bother to others, that is also being impolite.

There is a necessary condition all free, just can't affect other people's freedom: freedom is the basis of self-control and obey the law.

Two days before my wife say: "you know so-and-so violinist, although is music college graduate training between Juliet, but not into got undergraduate?"

"Pull so well, why Juliet don't accept?" I don't understand ground to ask.

"Because he in us with the orchestra, too, often not his own performance to the command."

"But he is a genius!" "Genius tube fart!" with Genius don't respect the group, let people look down on. "

It also made me remember daughter learn skating, have a part in the game, one of the children is the best but not slip its name. Reasons for actually rules prohibit to take any throw things on the ground, the child is in the end of the match, satisfiedly on flower ring into the sky. lilybule blogspot blog 

"This have what cock of the walk around here? She has skated too!"

"Too good but not obey the law, it is not very good." The referee said.

You young friends, I found that among you, there are many people who say "cool" is "as long as I'm happy to have what can't." QiZhi this "cool" to hurt yourself, influence others, also caused many dangerous.

I'm very appreciate the famous director ang lee's a words: "take national films like do the emperor, everyone to listen to order on me; take west piece like when the President, the President is to go out to please everyone." Ang lee so detailed, because take a little while, and the director, most countries love do what he do; Pat west slice of time with producer, actor, had to photography and the piece, even though his factory communication director of the liberty, but to respect each person's opinion.

Read this passage, today if you ask me what is "cool", I say: "cool" is not do the emperor, is when the President. "Cool" is do not break the rules of self play.